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2025-08-14

ភាពស្មេាះត្រង់

ទំនាក់ទំនងស្នេហាមួយអាចរលូននៅបានល្អអាស្រ័យភាពស្មេាះត្រង់ សេចក្ដីស្រឡាញ់ ការផ្ដល់តម្លៃ ការបារម្ភ ការយកចិត្តទុកដាក់ជាមួយគ្នាទៅវិញទៅមក ការផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាឲ្យគ្នា មិនថារវល់សិក្សាប្ញធ្វើការយ៉ាងណានេាះទេក៏នៅតែឆ្លៀតពេលវេលាសម្រាប់មនុស្សខ្លួនស្រឡាញ់ មិនលួចលាក់ក្រេាយខ្នង ...។ ស្ថិតក្នុងទំនាក់ទំនងស្នេហា តែងតែមានការប្រច័ណ្ឌ ការអន់ចិត្តនឹងគ្នា ការខ្វល់ខ្វាយ មិនចង់បាត់បង់បុគ្គលដែលខ្លួនស្រឡាញ់ចេញពីជីវិត តែទេាះជាយ៉ាងណា ត្រូវរៀនយល់ពីគ្នា រៀនអន់ឱនឲ្យគ្នាទៅវិញទៅមក រៀនអធ្យាស្រ័យ មានរឿង/បញ្ហាអ្វីគួរពិភាក្សាគ្នា(កុំលាក់ទុករួចធ្វើហីៗដាក់គ្នា)។ ផ្ដាំទៅមនុស្សប្រុសជាពិសេស បើមានមនុស្សស្រីម្នាក់នៅក្បែរខ្លួនហើយ កុំលួចទាក់ទងអ្នកផ្សេង កុំឲ្យអ្នកដទៃមើលមកថានាងជាមនុស្សល្ងង់. គួរមើលថែអ្វីដែរខ្លួនកំពុងតែមានឲ្យបានល្អ កុំឲ្យមានវិប្បដិសារីនៅថ្ងៃក្រេាយ។ សង្សារងាយរកនេាះទេ តែមនុស្សដែលស្រឡាញ់យើងជាយើង នៅក្បែរយើងគ្រប់កាលៈទេសៈ លះបង់ដើម្បីយើង មិនខ្លាចក្នុងការបង្ហាញអ្នកឲ្យក្រុមគ្រួសារ មិត្តភក្តិនិងមនុស្សជុំវិញខ្លួនគាត់បានស្គាល់អ្នក ខឹង/អន់ចិត្តតែមិនដែលឈប់ស្រឡាញ់អ្នក ទេាះអ្នកធ្វើខុសក៏ផ្ដល់ឱកាសឲ្យអ្នកកែប្រែ តែងអភ័យទេាសឲ្យអ្នក ផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាសម្រាប់អ្នក ស្មេាះត្រង់នឹងអ្នកគឺមានងាយរកបាននេាះទេដូច្នេះបើអ្នកមានមនុស្សល្អក្នុងរង្វង់ដៃអ្នកហើយត្រូវមើលថែឲ្យបានល្អ។ កុំឲ្យដៃគូរមានអារម្មណ៍ថាខ្លួនមានbf/gfដូចអត់មាន។ អ្វីដែលសំខាន់គួររៀនយល់ពីគ្នាឲ្យបានច្រើននិងផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាឲ្យគ្នាផងដែរ(call, text,នៅក្បែរគ្នា...)។សង្ឃឹមថាមនុស្សប្រុស/មនុស្សស្រីដែលបានអានសារមួយនេះនឹងស្មេាះត្រង់ជាមួយដៃគូររបស់ខ្លួន ហើយត្រូវចងចាំផងមុនពេលចង់បេាះបង់នរណាម្នាក់គួរនឹកឃើញដល់ពេលចង់បានគ្នាផង អនុស្សាវរីយ៍ រឿងរ៉ាវធ្លាប់ឆ្លងកាត់ ធ្លាប់តស៊ូជាមួយគ្នាទាំងប៉ុន្មាន កុំបេាះបង់នរណាម្នាក់ងាយៗ។ ត្រូវតស៊ូជាមួយគ្នារហូតតទៅ។ hope everyone likes this article.

To the woman that dated my ex,

I'm sorry. I should've told you what he's like. I was in your shoes, yet instead I watched you be his next victim. It might be too late now, but know that whatever he said is not true. You were not the reason. When he said it's in your head and that it's your insecurity, know that he meant you're close to catch him. Your instinct was right; he was gaslighting you. When he said it is your fault that it's over, know that he meant it is your fault for realising that you're not the only girl on his chat list. Your gut was right; you deserve better. It might be too late, but I hope this give you closure. You're not the problem, it's always been him. To his new girl, I hope you can escape being his next victim.

Is it love?

Is it still love when you have to keep asking for time and attention and still won't get it? Is it still love when your partner forgot exactly everything he told you he would do and everything about you? From every little details to every big events. Forgot even to meet you, forgot all the things he said he will do. He said he will... So I waited and waited... Even after I brought it up he didn't care to do it... Is it still love...? I'm not sure anymore... Too many sleepless night I've spent alone to think and worry if the love has already faded for you... I felt so lonely here... Too lonely...

What should I do next?

I’m sorry but I don’t freaking know what to do anymore. I don’t know whether he has feeling for me or he is just being nice. I don’t know whether to move on or keep holding into this one-sided love. I want to move on before I fall for him harder than this, but the love I have for that man right now is already deeper, deeper than you can ever imagine. I don’t want to be friend with someone I love, also I can’t accept the fact that one day we’ll be stranger again. A man who I’ve never expected I’d get closed to, a man who I’ve never expected that I’d fall for this hard, a man who I’m really happy to be around…

Slowly, you started pushing me away.

You know what happens to the person who you are pushing away? They’re starting to question themselves, their worth and feels so insignificant and powerless. I, myself questioned myself “ am I not good enough “. You know how much it hurts when I tried my best to stood by you while you’re pushing me away? Is it fun to doing so? I wanted to feel needed again. I wanted you to want me like you had before. I wanted you to lean on me, but that was the impossible task for you. Despite feeling so distant from you, I was there every time you needed to talk. We went from telling each other anything and everything to complete strangers. I feel like I don’t even know you anymore. I'd been pushed so deeply that there was no coming back. We went from the funny, the goofy texts to nothing at all. I’ll never stop caring. But if you decide to push me away, I’ll stay away. You pushed me too far, too fast and I couldn’t keep chasing after you.

Years later

Him: Would you still be with me if I came back to you that time? Her: Yes, I would. Him: Even after I left you several times? Her: yes, always. Him: why? Her: because I love you. Him: Now? Her: I have to love myself. Him: Maybe we would have been together if I were braver. Her: Maybe.

You said we were “Soulmate”❤️‍🔥

When things got too caught up, I disappeared, I shut down that just how I am, that’s how I cope with stress. So sorry, I think this time I shut down too long didn’t I? I didn’t talk for months instead of hours. Actually, during those months I hope that u would comfort me but u never once message me during those months and all these thoughts that were all up in my head like “you don’t love me anymore” start to come up and it’s true. When I finally open up again, when I feel better and talk again You already decided to abandon me. It’s hurtful but it’s understandable so I respect your decision. Hope that’s the best decision you’ve ever made. Hope you are happy. Some people are blessings, some are lessons so Thank you for the lesson. 🥰

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