What's the next move?

I met a girl, let's called her M, we date for almost 2 years but we are not in a relationship. We took like 2 or 3 breaks during the time that we talk. And we decided to broke up 2 weeks before we hit 2 years, but we still talk as a friend because before that we aren't even in a committed relationship too. M has a lot of friends even a lot of people want her too because she's a good girl, she's friendly, and she's gorgeous. And I know there's no chance of getting back together because she's talking to a guy that made me completely insecure, they were very close since before we broke up. He's close to her than I am now. I want to meet her but she always denies and she always goes out with that dude and her friends ship her with him too. And now I am seeing another girl which happens to be one of her friends too but they're not that close, So now what should I do should I stay away from her friends or should I or ask her out?? What are the consequences of dating her? what could happen next? what should I do? We went to the same Uni

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Toxic

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If cutting me off helps your life in any way, I support ✌🏻

ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំ តែមិត្តខ្ញុំមិនស្រលាញ់ ហើយក៏មកស្រលាញ់ខ្ញុំ ខ្ញុំក៏សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំបើខ្ញុំទាក់ទងគេ ខឹងអត់?? She said : ខឹងស្អីបើវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ផងគ្រាន់តែអាណិត តាមទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយរហូត… សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំហើយ ខ្ញុំក៏សម្រាចចិត្តមើលចិត្តគ្នាជាមួយម្នាក់ប្រុសនិង គិតថាគេល្អម្លេស យកចិត្តទុកដាក់និងខ្ញុំ គេនិយាយរឿងគ្រួសារគេ គេទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយយើង គេថាគ្រាន់តែចង់ឃើញស្នាមញញឹមយើងតែប៉ុណ្ណោះ :3 យើងទាក់ទងគ្នាបាន1អាទិត្យ គេក៏ថាគេចង់ធ្វើជាមិត្តនិងខ្ញុំវិញព្រោះគេមិនចង់ឃើញខ្ញុំពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ ( me : អាញថាមែនៗ style 99 មកទៀតហើយ) ខ្ញុំក៏ថា មិនមែនមកពីនៅស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំណាហី?? He said : អត់ទេ គេពិបាកប្រាប់ណាស់គ្រាន់តែដឹងថាគេធ្វើចឹងដើម្បីចង់អោយខ្ញុំល្អ កុំអោយពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ and he said : យើងទឹមតែទាក់ទងគ្នាទេចឹង ខ្ញុំនិងបំភ្លេចបានលឿន មិនអីទេ ( me : ច្បាស់ណាស់ ) បន្ទាប់មក ខ្ញុំក៏ព្រមតាមគេ មិនបានប៉ុន្មានផង ខ្ញុំក៏លឺថាគេទាក់ទងជាមួយមិត្តខ្ញុំវិញ ដែរជាមិត្តដែរប្រាប់ខ្ញុំថាវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងទេ ( me : ឆ្អែតណាស់តែយើងជាមិត្តនិងគ្នា ខ្ញុំមិនបានប្រកាន់ ហើយក៏ជូនពរគេទៀត😅 ខ្ញុំមិនចងើអោយមិត្តភាពខ្ញុំចប់ត្រឹមមនុស្សប្រុសម្នាក់ទេ ) ខ្ញុំទទួលស្គាល់ថាខ្ញុំ យំមែនព្រោះខ្ញុំ ស្ដាយចិត្តដែរជឿទុកចិត្តមនុស្សដូចយើង គិតថាគេល្អ បារម្មណ៍គ្រប់យ៉ាង មិនបានគិតថាអ្នកយកខ្ញុំជំនួសមិត្តខ្ញុំ ហើយលេងសើចនិងអារម្មណ៍ខ្ញុំមួយពេលបែបនេះ កុំធ្វើដាក់មិត្តខ្ញុំដូចដែរអ្នក ដែរអ្នកធ្វើដាក់ខ្ញុំ ពេលនេះអ្នកបានដូចបំណងហើយ អ្នកផ្ដាច់ទាំងស្នេហា និង មិត្តភាពពួកខ្ញុំ🙂 I forgive ya but we don’t needa keep in touch…respectfully.

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Don't beg

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#URMYPGB

Idk where to start so, 2018 the new term start and i got to meet her. She changed into my class with her friends. Her group and mine are two different world from eachother. Actually ik her even before she got to know me. We started studying in the same class, and extra classes. I really like her and i really wanna get to know her more. One day i reply her Instagram story and we got to talk. Later on, she replied my story, and here the our conversation started. We've been texting in Instagram for like about a year. We sometimes flex to messenger. I always asked her to send me lesson as an excuse to talk to her. At that time, those conversations were just normal but i was damn happy because i like her so... Her group and mine are still not boning together idk why but prolly idk lol. We were such a good talker in chat but in person lol awkward affff So 2020, COVID. We were still texting intelegram, messenger and Instagram. She always sent me her fav songs, what she watched on YouTube, forward me food or place or meme content from Facebook to messenger, and also send me video and meme, sth cute on Instagram. I did the same too. Ik you prolly can't feel the feeling from reading this but ... Sorry I'm not so good at expressing So here let me continue Idk but tbh covid got us both close to eachother. We talked everyday, she texted me just to tell it time for extra classes, or else send me food. She sometimes went out and when she's back, she always told me about her day tho i don't ask. Tbh i confused. I myself i know i like her, i mean i have feelings for her but what about her? She did like we're sth. Idk how to explain it all here but later on when 2020 about to end, we don't talk anymore, she just went silent on me and i have no clue what to do till now. My friends all know i like her, they also said they bet her group also know about this but no one dares to say. One of my friends said, I'm too obvious whenever it comes to her, she prolly knows but pretend like she doesn't. Hmm but it doesn't matter anymore. Right now i only wish she and i can still be friends. The thing is i only got to see her like 3 to 4 times in this 2021. And the last 2 times, she didn't even talk to me or even look at me. Heartaches lol. I was there like...? You didn't see me? Or what? She has changed... I mean she's not that excited to see me like before. Before whenever she saw me she always comes to me amd hit me as a greeting hut now lol, even my face she didn't even look at. You might wonder what happened between us. Seriously i have no answer cuz I don't even know what's wrong, she just gone silent and ... You won't see this anyway so imma just write it here

2025-08-14

A long lost friend

HEYY, It’s been a long long time since we talked. I’ve tried to reach out to you about a few years ago but I’ve never been heard from you ever since. We have lost touch completely. I always miss you. I know that you’ve dealt with mental issues but I have no ideas how are you doing now. I have been dreaming about you a lot in these last few years and last night you popped up in my dream again and it felt so real that we were reunited. You’re still matters to me even though I have never been heard from you since I texted you few years ago. I just wanna know how have you been, how is your life. You’re no longer active on your social media and I have no idea if this post is gonna reach you but if so, I hope you know that I miss you. I know you must be doing well for yourself; but whatever it is you are doing, I hope you’re happy. Either of us are chooses our paths in life, and I guess your path just no longer intertwined with mine. But I hope you’re happy. Because I really do wish you the best. And I genuinely wish you well. It’s completely fine if you don’t want to reach out to me again. If it’s possible, please let me know that you’re alright and that’s what I want to hear from you. From someone who remembers and will always remember you.

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Anyone?

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